What is my merit / 我有沒有優點

Two days ago, my Angel asked me "what is my merit?" When I heard that question, I had a short thinking. Then I told her, I should think for one night. I try to think about her merit, but all what I think are her defects. Why? My sweet Angel should has merit,  I couldn't realize any one. That's terrible. I always say to her that you're my sweet sweet heart (baby). I even can't tell you how much I love you. Just a simple and easy question, I couldn't reply right now. Parents treat their children strictly, one little fault could be magnified. We can't stand any mistake made by our children. Other's children do a little good thing that your children did that before, we will praise "you are so good and smart". That's so different reaction. No wonder so many children don't want to stay at their home instead of other's house.

From now on, I will respect for her merit first and don't magnify her little defect. Praise instead of blame.

從現在起, 我應該先看到她的優點而不放大她的小缺點. 讚美取代責備.